I don’t like making predictions, but for fun I’ll make a couple now as I talk about the year to come…
2011 is going to be the best year ever … for someone, and maybe that someone will be you, so get excited at the possibilities!
2011 is going to be the worst year ever … for someone, and on the bright side with the likelihood that the world’s population is going to cross 7 billion at some point in the next twelve months, the odds are totally in your favor that it won’t be you, so get excited at the probabilities!
It’s going to hurt. This year will contain pain, both physical and emotional. From stubbing your toe yet again in the dark on the coffee table that has been in the same place for as long as you can remember yet you still seem to forget that it is there to the soul crushing defeat of realizing that you will be unable to get out of debt, for yet another year, 2011 will be filled to the brim with pains both big and small.
It’s going to feel good. Outside of all the pain, you’ll have a (fairly) happy birthday, and you’ll give some gifts to that make people happy which will make you happy which makes them happy and we will all spiral off into a happiness whirlwind. You will sing (probably when you are alone) and you will dance (probably when you are alone) and you will laugh so hard that you will pee, just a little, in your pants (hopefully when you are alone). 2011 will be full of joy and love and family and friends, and despite all your best efforts to sabotage it, it’s going to be a good one.
Most of all, though, 2011 is going to be a year. Three hundred and sixty-five days of being. I guarantee that at least one of those days will make you lose all hope and at least one of those days will make you feel warm and happy from the tips of your toenails to the hair on your head (or just to your scalp if you don’t happen to have hair on your head). No matter how good it gets, it can’t last forever so don’t forget to plan for rainy days, and no matter how bad it gets, it can’t last forever either so keep an eye out for rays of light.
For myself, in the new year I really don’t have much in the way of goals. I plan simply to keep on keeping on. I exercise a little each day, I eat (mostly) better than I used to, and I write. My only real plan is to just do more of the same. Looking back at last year’s first post:
- I went the whole year without gaining back weight, but I didn’t lose any more. While an accomplishment of note, I do need to keep losing, so as I said more of the same. The plan is good, I just need to step it up a notch.
- I did get a netbook, and I did write more. I won the NaNoWriMo (though was disappointed in the win). I do watch less TV shows, but it hasn’t really turned into more writing. I need to work on that last bit.
- I didn’t finish any of my coding projects, but I made progress. Mostly, my business efforts in the last year resulting in redoing the website, fixing the forums and theme, and putting out the first draft of our first service that I’ve given absolutely no publicity to (I didn’t even blog about it). I was very nervous about that, hence the no publicity, but simply having it out there makes me feel better.
- And I did clean up the yard. In fact, we plowed up a huge chunk of it and planted new grass, which has come in quite nicely. I’m no longer ashamed of my backyard. Also, we cut down one tree, and my next door neighbor is having a crew take down some others between our houses. It is inspiring enough that this year I might actually finish clearing the back yard.
As you can see, I really mean it. For the next year I just want to stay level or do more of what I’m already doing. No need to break new ground or start new ventures. No need to radically change my life. So I don’t have much in the way of resolutions this year except to make a concerted effort not to backslide.
Finally, as this first morning of the year approaches noon and moves on into late day and onward into the rest of the year, I leave you with this one piece of advice, the single best paraphrasing of the Golden Rule ever conceived: Be excellent to each other.
Happy New Year!